Understanding Narcissistic Behavior: Two Key Signs to Recognize
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Chapter 1: Recognizing Narcissistic Traits
It is often said that identifying a narcissist can be challenging, but I assure you that it is possible. There are distinct behaviors typical of narcissistic individuals, and I will share two prominent examples.
Section 1.1: The Inability to Engage in Normal Conversations
Narcissists often struggle to hold a straightforward conversation. You may find yourself caught in an endless loop of explanations, akin to conversing with a young child.
For example:
- You: "You mentioned this earlier, but then you said something contradictory."
- Narcissist: "But you said that."
- You: "I’m not referring to that; you contradicted yourself."
- Narcissist: "I was responding to you."
This back-and-forth can go on for hours, leading you to rehash past issues and divert from the main topic. Ultimately, you may realize that your original point never got the attention it deserved.
Subsection 1.1.1: Miscommunication and Frustration
Section 1.2: The Disappearing Act When Confronted
When you express anger over something a narcissist has done, their typical reaction is to distance themselves. If you confront them about a lie, their response is often dismissive and hurtful.
For instance:
- You: "Why did you lie to me yesterday?"
- Narcissist: "What are you talking about?"
- You: "You lied about this and that."
- Narcissist: "I did what?"
- You: "Here’s proof of what you did."
- Narcissist: "Forget it! You're always arguing. I'm done!"
They may block you and leave you to grapple with your feelings of anger and confusion. You might attempt to reach out, but they keep you at a distance until you feel desperate enough to let it go and accept them back. When they do return, they often express indignation over your accusations, flipping the narrative to make you seem like the aggressor.
Chapter 2: Understanding Narcissistic Behavior
In this insightful video, Keith Campbell explains the two primary forms of narcissism, helping you better understand the traits and behaviors associated with narcissistic personalities.
This video explores eight common traits of narcissism, allowing you to identify whether someone in your life may exhibit these characteristics and how to handle such relationships.