Navigating Personal Space in the Era of Social Distancing
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Chapter 1: The Shifting Landscape of Social Interactions
In today's world, something feels amiss. Individuals no longer recognize each other’s presence in the same way. Whether alone or in pairs, people are spaced out in an unusually uniform manner along the shore, wandering aimlessly. When one person's path intersects with another's, an unseen force compels them to change direction, much like two opposing magnets. This creates a stark and desolate atmosphere that is surprisingly contrasted by the warmth of the sun-soaked beach. This is the unsettling scene I observe during my morning stroll, and undoubtedly, you’ve encountered similar eerie moments in your own surroundings as social distancing has become the new reality.
While there is a clear necessity for such measures, witnessing our interactions during these times leaves me genuinely perplexed.
Section 1.1: The Unsettling Nature of Social Distancing
To comprehend the impact of social distancing, we must first delve into why a distance of six feet is deemed "safe." During early childhood, our grasp of personal space is minimal. As we mature, we learn to navigate these boundaries, and by the age of twelve, we develop our unique sense of personal space.
Most of this awareness operates subconsciously, but it becomes apparent when someone invades it. This reaction is governed by the amygdala, the brain's protective mechanism that detects threats before we are consciously aware. This innate guardian triggers our fight-or-flight response and aids in the formation of memories tied to emotional experiences.
Without my amygdala, I would lack any understanding of personal space and would likely become excessively docile and fearless, making social distancing quite challenging.
Section 1.2: The Science of Proxemics
We are evolutionarily programmed to maintain distance from those who are ill. While this may seem harsh, it has historically offered a significant survival advantage.
The field of proxemics, which studies how humans utilize space and its effects on behavior and communication, sheds light on this. Edward Hall introduced this concept in 1963, outlining four distinct social boundaries:
Public space: Greater than 12 feet (or 3.5 meters).
This is the space maintained from an audience during a speech.
Social space: Four to 12 feet (or 1.2 to 3.5 meters).
This distance is comfortable for interactions with acquaintances.
Personal space: 1.5 to four feet (or 0.5 to 1.2 meters).
This is reserved for trusted individuals.
Intimate space: Less than 1.5 feet away (or 0.5 meters).
This proximity is for close friends, family, and romantic partners.
With social distancing measures now in place, our personal space is overshadowed by an additional four feet, making intimate interactions feel almost impossible.
Chapter 2: Adapting to New Norms
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As we adjust to these changes, it’s essential to recognize that our cultural backgrounds also influence our comfort levels with personal space. A study in the Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology revealed significant differences in how individuals from various cultures perceive social distances. For instance, individuals from warmer cultures, like Argentinians, may feel the six-foot rule more acutely compared to those from colder cultures, such as Hungarians.
The dynamics of who we allow into our various social spaces depend greatly on our emotions and perceptions of trustworthiness. If we find someone likable and trustworthy, we may invite them into our personal space, whereas feelings of discomfort may push us to maintain greater distance.
Ultimately, while our brains are wired to seek connection, the reality of social distancing presents a complex challenge that feels counterintuitive to our innate desires. As we navigate these unprecedented times, it is crucial to remain aware of these psychological and cultural factors shaping our interactions.