Empowering Your Life by Blocking Toxic Relationships
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Chapter 1: The Power of Blocking
Throughout my life, I've often been the go-to friend for those facing challenges with others.
When asked for advice, my suggestion usually revolves around the idea of blocking that person or, at the very least, ceasing to engage with them.
"Sierra, why is blocking always your first recommendation?"
To be honest, I’ve become quite “block-happy” over the years, and it’s all for three compelling reasons. Here are the three reasons I advocate blocking toxic individuals, and why you should consider it too!
Number One: Fed Up with Negativity
Having dealt with my fair share of deceitful people and bullies, I’ve often found that issues tend to arise behind my back, especially during school years.
These individuals, who never had the courage to confront me directly, would gossip and lie instead.
I always knew these so-called friends were not genuine; I had just accepted their poor treatment as normal. However, as a young adult, I’ve reached my limit—I'm done tolerating negativity.
This is why I swiftly block anyone who brings annoyance, hatred, or complexity to my social life.
I seek a peaceful and positive existence, so why allow anyone with bad intentions into my space?
Stop making excuses for toxic individuals, and dismiss the idea that blocking is a sign of weakness.
If someone thinks that cutting off harmful people is childish, they’re the ones who need to grow up.
Value yourself enough to let go of those who don’t deserve a place in your life.
The first video discusses valid reasons for blocking someone, offering insights that align with the importance of protecting your mental space.
Section 1.1: Lowering Daily Stress
My life transformed dramatically when I distanced myself from a toxic environment and limited my circle to just a few supportive friends.
Upon leaving, I felt an immediate lightness in my spirit, which marked the onset of my blocking habits.
Realizing I didn’t have to endure negativity from others was liberating.
Don’t let stress and toxicity infiltrate your life from those who aren’t contributing positively to it. If they’re not providing you with support, they shouldn’t have access to your energy.
Subsection 1.1.1: Academic Improvement
My focus in school drastically improved, resulting in a significant GPA increase.
I transitioned from a mediocre academic performance to graduating with a 92% average, ultimately gaining acceptance into one of the world’s top 25 institutions.
This accomplishment felt unimaginable at one point, but it became possible through a healthier mindset.
Section 1.2: Physical and Mental Well-Being
In a toxic atmosphere, my mental health suffered severely.
After making the choice to block harmful influences, my suicidal thoughts gradually diminished.
While I still have challenges to face, I no longer wake up each day questioning my existence.
The second video explains the primary reasons why individuals struggle to leave toxic relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and boundaries.
Chapter 2: Transforming Your Life
When you take the bold step to eliminate toxic people from your life, you open yourself up to new opportunities and a sense of peace.
In summary:
Stop allowing detrimental individuals to have access to you. Instead, take charge of your feelings and actions.
By freeing yourself from energy drainers, you will cultivate the mental clarity necessary to pursue your goals.
Set firm standards for yourself; you deserve to attract positive influences.
Once you acknowledge that you have control over your choices, you will discover that these adjustments are not only possible but essential.
In Conclusion
Blocking toxic individuals has granted me a state of tranquility, improved my academic performance, and enhanced my mental and physical health.
The three main reasons to consider blocking are:
- The desire to avoid unnecessary negativity.
- The benefits of reduced stress and improved well-being.
- A shift in perspective that motivates you to focus on personal growth.
I hope this encourages you to experience the benefits of distancing yourself from those who do not contribute positively to your life.